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How you can recognize true self-confidence on your date

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It is usually not the emphatically cool-looking type who is actually self-confident. Real greatness often shows in weaknesses. So that you don't fall for Blender, the author and coach Simone Sauter has collected some identifying features Have you ever been on a first date and sat in front of a man who looked intimidated and gave insecure answers to your questions? Me too. Incidentally, that can happen to you with a woman too. But in this post I want to talk to you about how you can recognize a confident man on a first date. He looks you in the eye People who are insecure and less self-confident find it difficult to look others in the eye. They tend to look past you or not in your direction at all, but rather to look at something like the food. As the saying goes, the eyes are the mirror of the soul. A self-confident man can look you in the eye and say "I have nothing to hide, I am open to get to know you". He shows himself to be vulnerable and stands by his feelings Imagi

Learning to flirt - tips for him and her

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While some are flirting for as long as they can, others are unsettled when they meet someone they like. What should I say and how can I flirt successfully? Whether in the bar or on a first date - flirting is actually not that difficult and even very shy people can easily learn to flirt - we are happy to help you!  The decision is made: you finally want to learn to flirt! Flirting in the chat still seemed so easy - but now that Philipp is in flesh and blood in front of Lisa, it is suddenly difficult for her to overcome her shyness. She really likes the way he takes a sip of his coffee and smiles at her. But while they have been talking about all kinds of things while dating online , their conversation on the first date is more like cautious small talk than an exciting conversation. Lisa would love to flirt at him now - but doesn't really know how. Learning to flirt is actually not that difficult. Flirt culture in Germany? “Aurelie - it never works like that. You expect far too much,

Does partner inequality lead to more infidelity?

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Because he is jealous of the good qualities of his wife, he seeks an escape from envy on infidelities. Our author about a man who cheats out of envy. In terms of my disposition, I would have to be monogamous through and through. I prefer it when life goes on smoothly, no unnecessary excitement, no stress, both professionally and privately, no sharp swings up or down. Something like cheating will definitely bring unrest into life. Experience speaks from me here. I've been cheating on my wife Elena for years. "I am married and I want to stay one!" It happens again and again, even though all of this is basically too chaotic and stressful for me. Just these secrets, this organized double life that you have to lead so that the whole thing doesn't get exposed, that's exhausting like a part-time job. I proceed strategically, I always try to meet a certain playmate only a few times so that she doesn't fall in love with me and annoy me because she promised more about o

20 tips for singles who are not allowed to go out

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 Our author Carina Starklauf deals with how you can get through the winter time as a single, even in times of Corona and partial lockdown Social contacts - what was that again? This question could soon be part of the standard repertoire of some singles. In times of exit restrictions and partial lockdown, Corona ensures that happy singles become unhappy. Because even the most convinced advocates of being alone is better than two need closeness now and then. These 20 tips help sometimes more, sometimes less to get over the loneliness. Tip 1: digital instead of analog Yes, yes, I know: physical proximity cannot be replaced digitally. But the digital age gives us technical aids with which we can connect. And that's always better than melting away from loneliness. True to the motto: if not analog, then digital! Tip 2: texting instead of sexting How much time do you regularly waste on slippery messages to your lover or a new foreign online acquaintance ? Has this ever done you more than

Professional tips for successful online dating

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What is popular in a dating profile, what is a deterrent? What is well meant but not successful? Our author Jana supports singles daily in their search for the right partner. For or, she wrote down her experiences and tips "What if I try even more?" Often singles have the feeling that they just have to do more and in the end it makes the mass that ultimately leads them to the desired success. However, when it comes to online dating, this is a complete misconception. In order to attract attention and score points with others, you can take a more relaxed approach to the matter. Simply according to the motto "less is more". The profile: show (not everything) what defines you A well-filled profile looks more appealing at first glance than one where the viewer can count the words with one hand. However, a distinction should be made between “well filled out” in the sense of “overloaded” and “interesting in terms of content”. An overloaded profile is a challenge. It is qui